Birth doesn’t have to be terrifying. It can be exciting and empowering.
Birth doesn’t have to be painful. It can be euphoric and enjoyable.
Birth doesn’t have to ruin your life and your body. It can be the best thing that ever happened to you.
Birth is what you make it. Let me help you make it fabulous!

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How partners can support women during pregnancy & birth, with Souvereign
The one idea that inspired and motivated me when I started working in the birth and pregnancy space was this: the birth moment is a sacred...
The psychology of pain
Pain is interesting. At least I find it interesting. I guess that comes from my work in helping women prepare for pregnancy and birth,...
The story behind the podcast
The Fear Free Childbirth and Motherhood podcast is where I help you to lose the fear, anxiety and stress that inevitably accompanies the...
Anxiety in pregnancy
Anxiety in pregnancy is currently estimated to affect around 15% of women. Through my work in supporting women in preparing for birth and...
Thomas Verny, Father of Prenatal Psychology
Prenatal psychology is an area of psychology that looks at the psychological changes that women go through from conception to postpartum....
7 signs of a woman with tokophobia
How to tell if you know a woman with tokophobia Tokophobia is the extreme fear of pregnancy and birth. It’s not very well known and yet it...
Birth shows us what we're made of. And we're stronger than we think.
Tokophobia – the fear of birth and pregnancy
Discover 5 ways you can overcome tokophobia, the extreme fear of pregnancy & birth.
Latest Blogs on Tokophobia
Scared of birth? Fear is not the only problem.
Fear of birth is big bloody deal. In two ways; The sheer number of women who experience it. Research tells us it's around 80%. Thats a...
Your fears are not what you think they are
Most people think that when you have fears around pregnancy and birth that your fears are related to pregnancy and birth. But the truth is...
FREE Birth Prep Guide
The 9 Steps To A Fearless Birth guide is one of my most popular yet simple guides.
Discover the essential 9 steps that will help you prepare for your positive, fear-free birth.

“Thanks so much to you, I can honestly say I’m entering into my final weeks of pregnancy fear free. I’m just excited – I feel like everyday is Christmas Eve!
I can honestly say I’m looking forward to labor and delivery!
Thank you! Thank you! THANK YOU for your podcast and book – they’re game changers!”

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The latest from the blog…
Scared of birth? Fear is not the only problem.
Fear of birth is big bloody deal. In two ways; The sheer number of women who experience it. Research tells us it's around 80%. Thats a...
How to clear your fears yourself
If you're scared of pregnancy or birth, here are some options for you if you'd like to try and deal with your fears yourself. I developed...
Your fears are not what you think they are
Most people think that when you have fears around pregnancy and birth that your fears are related to pregnancy and birth. But the truth is...
Clearing her tokophobia fears. Becky’s story
I want to share Becky's story of clearing her pregnancy and birth fears. Everyone's experience is different and we're all a bit nosey - or...
Clearing fears. Amber’s story
Experiencing fear around pregnancy or birth is pretty normal, around 80% of women experience some level of fear. But fears vary; some are...
Does your anxiety comes from your in-utero experience?
I recently stumbled on a past trauma that proved to be the key to a lot of the anxieties I've wrestled with as an adult. As someone who...
Hello, I’m Alexia

As soon as my second daughter was born I was getting emails (from women I didn’t even know!) asking me how I’d managed to have yet another wonderful birth when I had been so terrified of birth.
It got to the point that I thought It would be quicker to write a book than to reply to them all. So I did. But the emails kept on coming and the book wasn’t ready.
I started the Fear Free Childbirth podcast so that I could share how I overcame tokophobia and was able to have two incredibly wonderful birth experiences. This little maternity side project quickly escalated as I realised that fear around birth was actually a pretty big thing. And I thought it was just me!
Today I help women to lose the fear and prepare for pregnancy, birth and motherhood. I do this through my private sessions, my podcast, my book, my online products and programs.
I also train birth professionals and therapists in my fear-clearance technique so that more women can access the support they need when they need it.

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