Welcome to Fear Free Childbirth
Hello, I’m Alexia!
I’ve helped thousands of women all over the world to lose the fear and have empowering birth experiences.
I want to help you too so that you feel calm and excited about birth.
I’ve developed a DIY Fear Clearance technique that is FAST and POTENT.
It’s easy to use which means that you can approach pregnancy and birth FEAR FREE.
Use it on your fears, stresses and anxieties to feel strong and empowered on your journey to motherhood.
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I work with women all over the world to help them to activate their inner power and resilience.
I support women in overcoming their deep-rooted fears and traumas so that they can live fearlessly.
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9 Steps To A Fearless Birth is my most popular download.
Discover the essential 9 steps that will help you prepare for your positive, fear-free birth.

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Avoid due date stress.
Calculate a more realistic due date based on science
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Fearless Birthing is my unique approach to clearing your fears.
It involves uses Head Trash Clearance to clear your fears and it works. FAST!




the latest from the blog…
Should I wait until I’m pregnant to address my fears?
A common question I get from those who suffer with strong fears or tokophobia is this: should I wait until I'm pregnant to address my fears? My...
When the thought of losing control terrifies you
The idea of losing control is terrifying for many. Deep down we believe that we need to be in control to survive so when our sense of control is...
Hate the thought of something growing inside?
The idea of something growing inside or having a baby move in the belly is the stuff of nightmares for many women. It’s not all angels singing and...
The Psychology of Pain, with Dr Gary Keil
Pain is interesting. At least I find it interesting. I guess that comes from my work in helping women prepare for pregnancy and birth, because pain...
The psychology of pain
Pain is interesting. At least I find it interesting. I guess that comes from my work in helping women prepare for pregnancy and birth, because pain...
What’s the story behind the podcast?
The Fear Free Childbirth and Motherhood podcast is where I help you to lose the fear, anxiety and stress that inevitably accompanies the journey to...
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the latest podcast episodes…
The psychology of pain
Pain is interesting. At least I find it interesting. I guess that comes from my work in helping women prepare for pregnancy and birth, because pain...
The story behind the podcast
The Fear Free Childbirth and Motherhood podcast is where I help you to lose the fear, anxiety and stress that inevitably accompanies the journey to...
Anxiety in pregnancy
Anxiety in pregnancy is currently estimated to affect around 15% of women. Through my work in supporting women in preparing for birth and pregnancy,...
Thomas Verny, Father of Prenatal Psychology
Prenatal psychology is an area of psychology that looks at the psychological changes that women go through from conception to postpartum. If you're...
7 signs of a woman with tokophobia
How to tell if you know a woman with tokophobia Tokophobia is the extreme fear of pregnancy and birth. It’s not very well known and yet it can...
The Maternal Brain, with Jodi Pawluski
Today's podcast is all about the maternal brain and the neuroscience of pregnancy, birth, postpartum and parenting. A few months back I shared an...

“Thanks so much to you, I can honestly say I’m entering into my final weeks of pregnancy fear free. I’m just excited – I feel like everyday is Christmas Eve!
I can honestly say I’m looking forward to labor and delivery!
Thank you! Thank you! THANK YOU for your podcast and book – they’re game changers!”
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Do you suffer from tokophobia and don’t know what to do?
In my FREE email series, I share the 5 ways you can overcome tokophobia, the extreme fear of pregnancy & birth.
Latest blogs on tokophobia…
Do you have a fear of uncertainty?
A fear of uncertainty comes up a lot in my work with my clients. This is because there is so much potential for uncertainty on the journey to...
Should I wait until I’m pregnant to address my fears?
A common question I get from those who suffer with strong fears or tokophobia is this: should I wait until I'm pregnant to address my fears? My...
When the thought of losing control terrifies you
The idea of losing control is terrifying for many. Deep down we believe that we need to be in control to survive so when our sense of control is...
Hate the thought of something growing inside?
The idea of something growing inside or having a baby move in the belly is the stuff of nightmares for many women. It’s not all angels singing and...
6 reasons why we’re not a good fit to work together
1. You want to be fixed I’m not a fixer. And I have no interest in fixing you. Asking someone else to fix us is handing over our power to others....
I don’t want kids – do I have tokophobia?
There seems to be a lot of confusion about what tokophobia IS and what it ISN’T which I’d like to clarify. At a very basic level tokophobia is this:...