Welcome to Fear Free Childbirth
Hello, I’m Alexia!
I’ve helped thousands of women all over the world to lose the fear and have empowering birth experiences.
I want to help you too so that you feel calm and excited about birth.
I’ve developed a DIY Fear Clearance technique that is FAST and POTENT.
It’s easy to use which means that you can approach pregnancy and birth FEAR FREE.
Use it on your fears, stresses and anxieties to feel strong and empowered on your journey to motherhood.
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I work with women all over the world to help them to activate their inner power and resilience.
I support women in overcoming their deep-rooted fears and traumas so that they can live fearlessly.
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Prepare emotionally and feel ready.
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Feel calm and excited for birth.
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Support without the burnout.
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Discover the essential 9 steps that will help you prepare for your positive, fear-free birth.
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Avoid due date stress.
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Fearless Birthing is my unique approach to clearing your fears.
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the latest from the blog…
When Fear Takes Over: The Abortions We Don’t Talk About
The Thing I Wish More People Knew Some of the most heartbreaking stories I hear don’t come from women who didn’t want children - but from those who...
What Is Tokophobia, Really? Beyond “Fear of Birth”
“I didn’t even know tokophobia was a thing… until my whole life started making sense.” For most of my adult life, I thought there was just something...
What If the Anxiety You’ve Been Living With Isn’t Just “Anxiety”?
For years, I thought I was just “bad at life.” I felt anxious.Disconnected.Like something was always a bit off.And yet… I couldn’t quite explain...
In-Utero & Birth Imprint Trauma: The Hidden Factor Shaping Pregnancy Anxiety, Birth Fears, and Beyond
When people talk about birth trauma, they’re usually referring to the trauma a mother experiences while giving birth. But there’s another kind of...
Could Your Own Birth Be Shaping Your Fears About Pregnancy and Birth?
If you struggle with the idea of pregnancy or birth—whether that’s full-blown tokophobia or just a deep unease—you’ve probably spent time wondering:...
Erin’s Tokophobia Healing Journey
I'm thrilled to share with you another incredible tokophobia healing journey. As the host of the Fear Free Childbirth podcast, I have had the...
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the latest podcast episodes…
Tokophobia and Relationships
Most people don’t talk about what fear of pregnancy does to your relationships. Not the safe, surface-level worries (“What if we’re not ready?”),...
I Thought I Was Just Anxious — Until I Learned What Tokophobia Was
For most of my life, I lived with a deep, unspoken dread I couldn’t quite put words to. Pregnancy and birth weren’t just a distant “not for me”...
I Thought I Could Ignore My Tokophobia… Until I Had to Make a Choice
If you’re reading this, chances are you know that feeling — the gnawing fear that creeps in whenever pregnancy or childbirth comes up. Maybe you’ve...
What if your fear doesn’t have a name? The power of finally putting words to what you feel
I spent years struggling with a fear that nobody seemed to talk about. You know the kind – the thing you barely dare to admit, even to yourself,...
I Never Had the Right Words for My Fear… Until Now
For as long as I can remember, I’ve lived with a gnawing, wordless sense of dread around anything to do with pregnancy, birth, or even just the idea...
The Root of Toko: What If the Fear Didn’t Start With You?
I used to believe I just wasn’t “the maternal type”. That something in me was hard-wired wrong — why else would the idea of pregnancy or birth send...
“Thanks so much to you, I can honestly say I’m entering into my final weeks of pregnancy fear free. I’m just excited – I feel like everyday is Christmas Eve!
I can honestly say I’m looking forward to labor and delivery!
Thank you! Thank you! THANK YOU for your podcast and book – they’re game changers!”
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Do you suffer from tokophobia and don’t know what to do?
In my FREE email series, I share the 5 ways you can overcome tokophobia, the extreme fear of pregnancy & birth.
Latest blogs on tokophobia…
When Fear Takes Over: The Abortions We Don’t Talk About
The Thing I Wish More People Knew Some of the most heartbreaking stories I hear don’t come from women who didn’t want children - but from those who...
I Never Had the Right Words for My Fear… Until Now
For as long as I can remember, I’ve lived with a gnawing, wordless sense of dread around anything to do with pregnancy, birth, or even just the idea...
What If the Anxiety You’ve Been Living With Isn’t Just “Anxiety”?
For years, I thought I was just “bad at life.” I felt anxious.Disconnected.Like something was always a bit off.And yet… I couldn’t quite explain...
In-Utero & Birth Imprint Trauma: The Hidden Factor Shaping Pregnancy Anxiety, Birth Fears, and Beyond
When people talk about birth trauma, they’re usually referring to the trauma a mother experiences while giving birth. But there’s another kind of...
Could Your Own Birth Be Shaping Your Fears About Pregnancy and Birth?
If you struggle with the idea of pregnancy or birth—whether that’s full-blown tokophobia or just a deep unease—you’ve probably spent time wondering:...
We’ve Got Tokophobia All Wrong – And It’s Hurting Women
One of the biggest problems with tokophobia is its name. It’s got the word phobia in it. That confuses people— especially mental health...